Working a service job shows you the breadth of humanity, and I was pretty sick of people’s bullshit. — If there’s one thing I was proud of back then, it was being exactly what people needed: unassertive in relationships, appeasing in conflict, and passive in life. It made me the perfect servant — an employee of the month. Clothed in tan bellhop attire akin to Esteban Julio Ricardo Montoya…